Last but not the least..

Hope you all enjoyed reading about this fabulous person. Now its my turn .

There is alot to write, few incidences I will share right now and rest of them I will be updating in near future ..

Alright lets start from our childhood , When we were child I was very naughty off course I have not improvised a lot but you can guess how was I .

Papa arranged tution for us, before that three teachers quit taking the tuition because of me. Mom still complain about this. Anyways the name of our Sir was Madhav ji. As usuall I did something wrong and he asked me move my hands forward so that he can hit me with the stick.
You wont believe this lovly girl started crying please don't punish her. She managed to save me ;) later on she did something wrong and she got beaten.
and I, Shikha a cruel person was so happy ki di ki pitai hui . That time I didn't realize it but now I feel the importance of it..

And I did lots of foolish activities those I can't share here :p

But just because I was a fool she had to feel embarrassed few times because of me.

She is very particular about clothes, I still remember papa yelling at her for being adamant.

She is the only person about whom I think before buying anything. I love buying something for her and I guess she love getting things from me and vice versa.

During my college I used to wait for her, she will bring gifts for me. She always does best for her loved ones.

Off course she is best in exploiting people like me. She always used to make me dance at our roof like I am robot "chalo dance dikha do" mai ahungi ab mai badi ho gayi hoon, to kahegi are kuchh nahi kar do mere liye.

I remember after her marriage my visit to her in laws place. I had been there for a day but whole day she could not spend time with me because of guests coming to her place.
And at night we talked for few hours and went to sleep. Morning I felt some droplets on my face.
I woke up and saw she was kissing me and at the same time crying. and she licked my cheeks like I was a puppy :)

Sometimes we fight for short span but soon we will manage that's the best part of our relation.

Fight se yaad aaya bachpan me bechari ko bahut pitana pada hai mujhse and even if she used to touch me everybody would say "ki woh chhoti hai " hahhahaaha

That is the best part of being youngest in the family enjoyed it to the fullest.

I have alot to learn from her. She is my sweetie pie.


Rest of stuffs I would be updating soon.

It's so good to know someone special, who shares,
My secrets, my laughter, my dreams and my cares,
Someone through good times and bad, when there's tears,
It's so good to know you (Roli di),
Have a lovely B'day !



Have fun...........

A journey towards new horizon

This is Monica Manika as per her mother in law .

Can have a look at her new family

In Top Left you can see monica's sister in laws Priyanka (Ruby) and her husband Prashant
and Monty. Left-Bottom me manika ki saaso maa . I did not had pic of her Father in Law.
Will add it soon.

Everyone plz ignore the remaning two photos ....;)

Did you guys take it seriously??? No way he is the better half of humari begam
humare jiju urf jehanpanah :)

"chhi chhi mausi, woh aur juwaari na na. woh to bahot hi

achchha aur nek ladka hai.Lekin mausi, ek baar sharaab pi li na phir, achchhe bure ka kahaa hosh rahataa hai. Haath pakad ke bitha liyaa kisi ne juwaa khelane. ab isme bechare Pradeep ka kya dosh?

"

I know he is going to kill me. Jokes apart he is a brilliant person with a pure heart. Bas kabhi kabhi jhoote promise kar dete hai like he promised to get me a oxygen cylinder so that I can breath while talking :)

Prashant Jiju shares some incidences with us. He says :

"A person who tries hard to make life perfect, is too simple to hide it but still refuses to accept it.

It was her first birthday after our marriage and I was planning to get a cake for her. I guess she discovered within 3-4 months of our marriage about my poor choice of such items so she tried to give few hints about what type of cake she would expect. As usual, I nodded my head without paying too much attention. She figures it out and decided to go with me. When we reached cake store, she started looking for the cakes and quickly picked the cake she wanted and I was like - whose birthday is it :-) Finally we got home with the cake and she proudly announced to the world (our local friends in Hagerstown and may be some of you too) about the beautiful cake I had bought for her. Not too bad after all as I was considered an ideal husband and given the fact that some of my colleauges must have taken yellings from their wives for not being so nice.

you may know about about her nick names -'Sundar' and here is how she got it. In pursuit of perfection, she always wants me to look my best even though I may not care much. When I used to work from home, I would not shave that often and she hated it. One Friday, same thing happened and I refused to shave despite her repeated requests. Since her colleauges also used to go to same stores as we would so there was always a good chance that we could bump into someone we knew. So she decided to use a 'trump card' - 'koi mil gaya to kya kahega. Yeh (herself) to itni sundar aur yeh( Prashant) aisa'. To my greated surprise, we did meet 3-4 of her colleaugues there and the moment we got home and as you can expect , I head the statement -'I told you so'. So here is how she got a new nick name 'Sundar' that everyone in our family knows about and whenever there is a mention of this word, they think about her with a smile on their faces.

Disclaimer - This is final version of this mail. If you get another mail from this mail ID with a modified version, you should assume that she did not like something about this and decided to change it."

Good one jiju,before she could even read it I finalized you version . In tech term I cmmitted your code to svn :p:p uff ye techpana

So ye hai humari manika ji...

Chandaal Chaukadi

Foolon ka taaron ka sabka kahana hai ek hazaaron me meri bahana hai
Sari umar hamen sang rahana hai ..............

Hmm this is the song we all used to sing together be it bhai dooj, rakhi or some other fest. I could recall we all used to eat in a single thali and mom used to the only cook. Though we used to get a single bite in a slought and that is something we used to enjoy :) Miss those days........

Meet roli's Brothers and Sisters , our eldest brother Yogesh (Pappu Bhaiya) and Atul bhaiya are in topmost picture.

Eldest Sister Seema di is in bottom picture, Center one having Manisha (Gudia di) and Ashish (Ashu bhaiya) and in the most you will find Monica (Roli) and Right Most please ignore :p hhehehe it's me Shikha (Chhotu) urf k*

Thank God I have got such a nice siblings everyone is of different nature but at the same time carrying few similar family values :)

I got chance to share the views of few people from this photograph let's have fun reading it ;)


Atul bhaiya shares few incidences with us . I will just paste whatever he wrote about her. He says :

"When I went jhansi to meet Roli in the hostel..That was really memorable and she could also remember it.

Since boys were not allowed inside the hostel so the security person stopped me and asked to wait at the gate........ He didn't know that he was doing biggest Crime.

That time I saw what roli is!!! What the spirit of daring and bearing courage, gutsy, bravery, audacity!!!...Which I never seen ever before.
I told "Roli, rules are the rules" but no ways. She continued shouting 15 minutes, I pulled her "come on Roli! leave it." She told "No, I will complain to warden, Main ise Naukari se nikalwa dungi, abhi mujhe janata nahi hai."

Oh God! how I convinced Roli I know. I can't forget that incident.

So selfrespect is most valued thing for her. we are really proud to have such Sis"

hahaha good one Atul bhaiya. Thanks for sharing your views .

Whereas Manisha (Gudia di) says :

She is my best friend which we share , care each and everything

I remember after marriage when I was coming to jalaun we met in Jhansi railway station she was very happy to see me & we went to orchha & a temple over the mountain where she prayed about my marriage. that trip was organized by her.

We enjoyed a lot & all sibling were there.

I know these day she changed from outside but from inside she still remains the same.

God may bless her & fulfill her desire

I can feel you Gudia di..Love you

Hmm following are the words of Ashu bhaiya :

Here are two liners for this true star

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I don't know but the truth is I believed this gal never wanted to be anything. Always docile, crying when other siblings are beaten, happy working with daily chores with LAL DANT MANJAN in her mouth.

The transition, when she got in to BU, was amazing. It was quick, compelling and it brought a lot of confidence in her. Thats how my new impression was about her when she was in BU. Reality struck when she came to Bangalore for her first job....except her dress (which was a lining t-shirt, a high heel check boots) I liked every part of her transition. Afterwards She changed a bit during her Bangalore stay, changed when she reached US. However, she still remains same by her heart. Kudos to her effort for gudia di's marriage, pappy bhaiya's marriage, her own marriage ;), my marriage ...and I am sure many more will be blessed in future. Way to go.....

In short; I feel lucky, blessed and obliged to be one of the luckiest siblings of her. I wish she gets everything she wants to get in her life but with the right way.

Offcourse bhaiya you are lucky to have her, Jiju must be feeling jealous of you...

Hold on how can forget to introduce about Saumya Bhabhi? Anyways, she is the new member in our family. Lovely person to be with .Here is the two liner she wrote about Roli di..

"I havn't spent much time with her,But in a very short span of time I got to know ki photo khichwane ka bahut shauk hain.and I suppose that this habbit is in her genes as I have seen some of the characterstics in Manu also ,aur agar photo achchi khichi ho to ma beta photo khareedne mein bhi peeche nahin rehte(correct me if I am wrong jiju).

But i must say she is a darling.

All the best

May all her wishes come true."

Good one bhabhi but ye shaukh nanad aur bhabhi dono ka hai and if I am not wrong photo khichwane se jyada Orkut pe lagane ka hai :p:p

So have you enjoyed reading about monica ???

Papa ki pari

I wish I could get some better pictures with mummy papa :(

Meet monica's parents offfcourse mine too Dr.J.P.Pachauri & Mrs. Nirmala Pachauri

My papa is best.... really he is a person whom we adore alot , proud to be his daughter. He worked hard for us to reach this level. I still remember he being more diligent towards the competitive exams we appearing into. He never discriminated between a girl and boy.
Mom always looks strict and straight forward to everyone but she is just opposite from heart.

I still remember Roli di complaining ki y to ghar me sabse bade ko pyar milta hai ya sabse chhote ko beech wale hamesha dale pade rahate hai ;)
I also felt though mom dad never did it intentionally but somehow outcome used to be like ki somehow she will feel she is being ignored. off course later on she realized it how much they love her :)

Papa always admire her alot. An example is when she moved to Jhansi to Bangalore and she had 13 bags . Papa got annoyed seeing the luggage she was carrying but she consoled Papa don't worry I will manage and you won't believe she did everything on her own. Papa was like ki mera beta hai woh...

Mummy to tarif karte nahi thakti , kabhi kabhi to mujhe gussa aata tha ki itabi layak kyun hai meri bahin ki jiski wajah se mujhe hamesha nalayak bola jata hai :p Har baat me mummy bolengi dekho Roli se kuchh seekho, roli aisa karti hai waisa karti hai. And now when she is not here she always tell ki Roli hoti to ye lati ghar ke liye woh lati.

Dear I am trying hard and started doing some homely stuffs but for sure I can never take you place. You are the best ......

Just to tell Mom Dad love you even more than everyone. and you mean alot to them.
Some of the times I have seen you being criticized even after doing alot I know it babe :(
You will get paid for everything.......

But ek baat abhi tak samajh nahi aayi ki Roli di ne Ashu bahi ki shaadi me khud babycut haircut kyun nahi karaya :p Sirf mera hi kyun karaya :p :p

Love u sweetheart, I know you wanted me to look best and you tried your best, whatever people say it doesn't matter to me .

Bholi Roli towards new horizon of life....

Hmm... guys finally this the gem person, to whom this blog is dedicated to .


I tried capturing different phase of her life in this picture. Though some of them are viewable properly coz I captured them from old pics :(

You can see this beautiful girl always carrying elegance.

About her I can say, She is someone who loves you from the heart,No matter how much you argue you cannot be drawn apart.She is a joy that cannot be taken away,Once she enters your life, she is there to stay.A companion to whom you can express your feelings,
She doesn’t let you get bored at family dealings.Whether you are having your ups or downs,
She always helps you with a smile and never frowns :)

In short I will explain the pic contains her pictures from childhood to engagement with jehanpanah :p till the arrival of new member (Manu) of our family.

One more thing I have cropped the pics, apart from 3 pictures in rest of all Roli di was with Ashu Bhaiya .

Sounds funny, but I know she loves him aloooooooooot. Saumya bhabhi must be jealous of her :p


Love u :)

Introduction

Hello All,

This blog is dedicated to my sister Monica (Roli) for her b'day 5th Oct 2009.

I would be sharing some of Sweet Moments of her.

Thanks everyone for devoting their precious time.

Thanks,
~Shikha